What makes us lose weight? Attitude, thinking, self-control, mind-set and ultimately, decisions.
We know what to do.
But we don’t do what we know.
We’ve never been more educated.
Yet we’ve never been fatter.
We’ve never had more resources.
And we’ve never made more excuses (heard them all).
We’ve never had more reasons to lose weight.
And we’ve never wasted more time.
But people don’t wanna hear this message because it’s too fundamental and obvious.
And it requires real effort, sacrifice, work and self-control.
No, we’d rather talk about weight-loss theory number ten million or the latest ‘breakthrough’ pill, powder, potion, product, gizmo or gadget.
Or that amazing new weight-loss book.
‘Cause we need another one of those.
We want quick, easy, convenient and painless.
We are soft.
We are precious, lazy and lack self-control.
We are the quick-fix society.
And the instant-gratification generation.
And the fat generation.
We want an answer that doesn’t require effort or sacrifice on our part.
And it is this mentality which keeps us (us, the society) fat.
If the answer to Global obesity was in fact, more education, information or resources, then we would all be getting leaner by the day because we’ve never been more educated, informed or equipped when it comes to diet, exercise, lifestyle and all that ‘obesity-related stuff’.
Here’s some random food for thought (nice book title)… on obesity.
(You can still look away at any time).
1. External change needs to be accompanied (or preceded) by, internal change (for it to be lasting).
2. Most people who lose weight regain it (over 95%) because they haven’t really changed their attitude or thinking. They change their behaviours for a while but deep (deep, deep) down they haven’t really changed their core thinking, beliefs, attitudes or standards. On a subconscious level many people are waiting for it (the diet, the fitness kick) to be over.. so they can go back to being ‘normal’.
And when they do eat less and exercise more they (often) slide into a deprivation mentality… constantly telling themselves that they’re ‘missing out’.
3. If we tell ourselves that it will be a painful, horrible process… it will be (for everyone).
Attitude = outcome.
4. The sooner we stop looking for easy and start looking for effective… the sooner we’ll start to see real (forever) change.
5. Weight-loss martyrs are a pain in the ass… “I’ve been so good… I’ve been so good.”
6. While food, exercise and lifestyle are important ingredients in the weight-loss process… it is our head which determines how we eat, exercise and live.
Which in turn determines our physiological state.
7. The fat person with all the knowledge, education and resources… and a crap attitude.. will stay fat.
8. The fat person with limited knowledge, resources and genetic potential.. and a great attitude… will produce much better results every time.
9. The sooner we stop getting in shape for ‘events’ (weddings, birthdays, reunions, parties) and start getting in shape for life… the sooner we’ll start to see forever results.
10. The fitness industry and medical profession have a one-dimensional approach to weight-loss; physical. This is ignorant, naive and ineffective. Losing weight (effectively) is a complex, multi-dimensional process (physical, emotional and psychological).
11. Losing weight is not about finding the right program, diet, supplement or drug; it’s about finding the right attitude.
12. Many (okay, most) fat people make excuses and tell lies.
A lot.
Just ask the ex fat kid.
Yes, I know this sounds offensive but if you had experienced the thousands of conversations with as many fat people as I have… you’d know that I’m telling the truth.
You can get offended… or educated; it’s a choice.
13. By the way, ‘fat ‘ is not an insult (in this discussion)… it’s a physiological state.
14. The sooner we call fat what it is (as opposed to deluding ourselves by calling each other full-figured, big-boned and heavy-set) the sooner we will get serious about addressing obesity in a real, practical, no bullshit way. Perhaps we should worry less about political correctness and more about heart disease, diabetes, bowel cancer and the plethora of other obesity-related conditions.
“Whatever you do.. don’t mention the ‘F’ word.. you might hurt her feelings; she’s not fat, she’s… voluptuous!”.
15. We love to play the blame game.
We wanna blame someone or something for our obesity.
It’s a time thing.
It’s a genetics thing.
As long as it’s not a ‘me’ thing.
Otherwise I might have to get off my ass and take responsibility for my fat self.